The Bible speaks often about judgment, but not always in the same way. On one hand, Jesus warns against condemning others. On the other, believers are told to exercise discernment and, at times, correction. Understanding this tension helps us see how to live faithfully with one another.

Scripture Reading

Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged. —Matthew 7:1–2

But with me it is a very small thing that I should be judged by you or by any human court. In fact, I do not even judge myself. For I am not aware of anything against myself, but I am not thereby acquitted. It is the Lord who judges me. —1 Corinthians 4:3–4

Reflection

Judgment is something we both give and receive. Jesus warns us against a spirit of condemnation—the kind that points out the speck in someone else’s eye while ignoring the log in our own (Matthew 7:3–5). When we judge in this way, we place ourselves in God’s seat, forgetting that He alone is the final Judge.

Yet, the Bible also calls us to discernment. Jesus said, “Judge correctly” (John 7:24). Paul instructed the church to lovingly hold each other accountable (1 Corinthians 5:12). The difference lies in the heart: condemnation tears down, while godly discernment builds up.

When others judge us, Scripture points us to humility and patience. Sometimes criticism holds truth we need to hear. At other times it may be unfair. In both cases, our security comes from God’s verdict, not people’s. As Paul wrote, “It is the Lord who judges me.”

Questions for Reflection

1. When am I tempted to judge others harshly rather than with love and discernment?
2. How do I usually respond when I feel judged by someone else?
3. What would it look like for me to rest more deeply in God’s judgment and less in human opinion?

Response When Judged

• Don’t Retaliate. Jesus teaches against striking back (Matthew 5:38–42). The same principle applies when we are unfairly judged.
• Examine Ourselves Humbly. Criticism, even if harshly given, may contain truth. Proverbs reminds us: “Do not rebuke mockers or they will hate you; rebuke the wise and they will love you.” (Proverbs 9:8).
• Entrust Judgment to God. Paul wrote: “I care very little if I am judged by you or by any human court… It is the Lord who judges me.” (1 Corinthians 4:3–4). Our ultimate identity rests in God’s verdict, not human opinion.

Prayer

Lord, forgive me when I judge others in a spirit of pride or condemnation. Teach me to discern wisely and to correct in love. When others judge me, help me listen humbly, but not be crushed. Remind me that You alone are my Judge, and that in Christ, I am already loved and accepted. Amen.